Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Cost of Infertility Treatments

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Infertility treatments are expensive.  Unfortunately, here in the Philippines, we do not have infertility health insurance (not one that I know of) like other countries wherein they are given reimbursements for infertility treatments.  Since we do not have this luxury, the financial burden lies solely on us.

As most prices of commodities have gone up, so does the cost of infertility treatments.

In 2006, I had my HSG done at Chinese General Hospital.  For the procedure alone, it costs us Php6,000.  Just recently, I asked my OB for the ongoing rate of HSG, and she said it is around Php10,000 at Cardinal Santos and Php15,000 if in St. Luke’s.

For the laparoscopy and hysteroscopy combined, we paid around Php80,000 for the two procedures.  We opted to have it done at Philippine General Hospital (PGH) because of the price difference.  If we are to do the surgery at Medical City or St. Luke’s, the cost will be around Php150,000 – 200,000.  The same doctor, the same procedures… different hospital, different price.  A very huge price difference at that!

In fairness, the doctors and nurses at PGH were very good and professional.  We chose the private room, which was really big and clean.  The only problem with PGH is the lobby… there were too many people of all sorts.  I didn’t expect much from PGH because it was after all a public hospital.  But with the price I paid for, and the service that I got, I was more than satisfied with the whole experience.

For IUI, it cost around Php6,000 in 2007.  Right now, it is Php10,000 per cycle.  Price differs per OB and also as to where the procedure is to be done.

For the LIT, it costs Php14,000 per donor if blood extraction and processing is done at the Manila Endocrine Laboratory.  Php27,000 if it is done at St. Luke’s Hospital.

Blood tests can also entail a huge amount of money.  Immunological testings can cost almost Php50,000 if you test all categories.  Aside from that, you also need to have some blood tests done from time to time.

For IVF, it will cost around P500,000 if done here in the Philippines.  It would be cheaper if you’ll have IVF done in Taiwan.  It will cost you around Php300,000 for the whole procedure including your stay there.

No wonder, treating infertility is very stressful.  Aside from the emotional stress, there is also the financial burden as to whether you can possibly afford all the treatments needed to bring you a child.  You really have to think about how far or up to what extend you are willing to go.

But of course, when the infertility treatments become successful, you’ll eventually forget all the money you’ve spent and all the pains and heartaches you’ve experienced.  Everything will be worth it.  Seeing your child in your arms makes the infertility journey all worthwhile.  It will definitely be worth the wait… with hope, dreams and faith, we can achieve the impossible.  Just hang in there… Happy Infertility!

Friday, June 3, 2011

Have A Happy Hour

Be Happy:  Have A Happy Hour

Whatever thoughts are causing you pain, they are only thoughts.
You can change a thought. Happiness is a daily decision.  
-- Andrew Matthews

This morning I read an article in the Philippine Star Column of Soul Train by Katrina A. Holigores entitled “Have a Happy Hour:  The Natasha Goulbourn Foundation launches a new campaign. and was inspired to share this with you.

The Natasha Goulbourn Foundation (NGF) was set up in 2007 by Jeanne Goulbourn and a group of friends from various sectors in memory of her late daughter, Natasha Goulbourn who suffered from depression.  This foundation aims to educate and inform people all about depression – what causes it, how to manage it and how to heal from it.

Just recently, NGF has launched its new campaign, “Be Happy!”  The movement aims to bring light to depression by empowering every person to consciously make an effort to find happiness in their lives.  People are encouraged to set aside an hour each day to be happy or give happiness to others and live happier lives one day at a time. 

The foundation is trying everything to catch people who may be on the road to depression.  As Jeanne Goulbourn realized after the sudden death of her daughter, “Depression is a condition that knows no social class; it could strike anyone regardless of intelligence, educational attainment and financial standing.” 

Dr. Lou Casimiro-Querubin, a psychiatrist at The Medical City depicted depression as a hidden illness, which does not confine itself to a specific group of people.  According to Dr. Querubin, the symptoms are so common that it is easy to mistake them for an ordinary feeling of “the blues” that we all have at some point in our lives.  Physically, there may be frequent headaches, fatigue, disturbed sleep, lack of energy, dizziness, pain, gastrointestinal complaints, sexual dysfunction and menstrual problems.  Emotionally, there may be a constant “low” feeling, anhedonia or inability to derive pleasure out of things that used to give one great satisfaction, a sense of guilt, hopelessness, low self-esteem, impaired memory, difficulty concentrating, anxiety, anger and irritability.  It takes anywhere between two weeks and two years for these symptoms before the onset of a major depressive episode. (Source: Manila Standard Today June 1, 2011 issue)

It is a fact that one in seven individuals will suffer from depression at least once in their lifetime.  However, the trouble is… they are not even aware of it.

Depression can take on many forms, and it can take root from something seemingly trivial.  Each person has a different perspective on how they view life, how they see and handle things that come their way.  One thing can have a deep impact on me, but could be a no big deal for you.

I’m sharing this “Be Happy!” movement with you because infertility is a very stressful event in a person’s life and could lead to depression if we do not consciously make an effort to fight it.  Some would not understand why infertility can lead to depression, but those who are in this infertility journey will surely agree with me that at one point in their lives, they have experienced depression – the feeling of hopelessness, sadness, anger, pessimism and a general loss of interest in life.

So, this “Be Happy!” movement is very helpful for us... It serves as a reminder for us to give ourselves a Happy Hour each day.  It enables us to break away from the pressures, the worries, and the burden of infertility or life in general and deliberately change our thoughts from sadness to happiness by doing something that makes us happy.  Or at least, through this conscious effort to be happy, we find a way to deal with our “lemons” with more positivity.  Having a “happy hour” is essential to keep you balanced and healthy in body, mind, and spirit. 

There is a My Happy Hour page on Facebook where people share their stories about how they spend their happy hour for that day.  As of the moment, there are two hundred and two people who liked My Happy Hour including me.  With the help of social media, more and more people will be aware of this foundation’s core mission – What is it that you do or can do to go from sad to happy?  Here are what some people have written so far:  Spending quality time with family and friends.  Eating good food.  Trying something new.  Playing games.  Sleeping.    And like me, writing my latest blog post and sharing it with you.  It’s basically just about making yourself happy or someone else happy.

Let us help each other rise through the pains and heartaches of infertility and learn to appreciate and see the brighter side of life.  Let us reinforce each other in celebrating the little joys of life as we journey through infertility.  Let us find joy in the simple pleasures of life.      

So, how about you?  How will you spend your happy hour?  Go forth and make you own happy hour, share your story and inspire others to do the same. 

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

A Song on Infertility: I Would Die For That by Kellie Coffey

This is a very touching song that talks about a woman who wants to have a child, and her best friend who was too young, got pregnant but aborted the baby.  Talk about Law of Inverse Infertility… hahaha!

Kidding aside, this song captures exactly how most if not every women who are in this infertility journey feels.  This beautiful and moving video says it all… the pains, the longing, the desire.  Those experiencing infertility issues could surely relate to this song. Warning:  Have some tissues nearby before watching this video.  Check this out and you’ll know what I mean.               




I Would Die For That
By Kellie Coffey

Jenny was my best friend
Went away one summer
Came back with a secret 
She just couldn't keep
A child inside her
Was just too much for her
So she cried herself to sleep

And she made a decision
Some find it hard to accept
Too young to know that one day
She might live to regret

But I would die for that
Just to have one chance
To hold in my hands
All that she had
I would die for that

I've been given so much
A husband that I love
So why do I feel incomplete?
With every test and checkup
We're told not to give up
He wonders if it's him
And I wonder if it's me

All I want is a family
Like everyone else I see
And I won't understand it
If it's not meant to be

Cause I would die for that
Just to have one chance
To hold in my hands
All that they have
I would die for that

And I want to know what it's like
To bring a dream to life
For that kind of love
What I'd give up
I would die for that

Sometimes it's hard to conceive 
With all that I've got
And all I've achieved
What I want most 
Before my time is gone
Is to hear the words
"I love you, Mom."

I would die for that
Just to have one chance
To hold in my hands
What so many have
I would die for that

And I want to know what it's like
To bring a dream to life
How I would love
What some give up
I would die ...
I would die for that.


Happy watching and listening!             

Law of Inverse Fertility


The fertility of a couple is inversely proportional to their desire to have a child.  Sounds interesting?!?
 
Couples who want to have children will have trouble not only conceiving, but adopting and using surrogates as well.  Women who don’t want to have children, however, will be faced with unwanted pregnancies even if they used several different forms of birth control.  Teenagers, of course, will get pregnant their first time, double points if they thought they couldn’t.  The reason for this, of course, is obvious: “woman becomes pregnant with longed-for child immediately.” and “woman doesn’t want to get pregnant and doesn’t” don’t make for very good stories.  At least the woman with a baby she doesn’t want can give it up to the woman who is desperate to conceive but expect much angst along the way.

Could this be true?  Maybe, Yes?  Maybe not?  Though there are many examples to prove that it does exist.  Read more on the Law of Inverse Fertility and judge for yourself!  Happy Reading!

Core Strength Vinyasa Yoga with Toinette

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Every time I would arrive home after my yoga class, I feel amazingly wonderful.  I felt SO good.  There is a sort of release physically and mentally that makes me feel so relax and calmed.  Everything seems so peaceful.  Moreover, it lifts up my spirit and gives me immense joy.  It is really a total body, mind and soul experience.

I started the practice of yoga just recently, about two months ago.  It happened during the time when I was so depressed because my LAT (Leukocyte Antibody Test) results would not improve even after 6 sessions of LIT (Lymphocyte Immunotherapy).  See My Infertility Story for more information on this.  I asked my immunologist on what lifestyle change I can make to help my body respond better to the immunological workup we were doing.  She suggested four things: 1. Take Conzace three times a day. 2. Yoga. 3. Acupuncture 4. Less stress. 

Very desperate at that time, I did everything!  And that was how I turned into yoga… and loving it.  I believe that with the help of Yoga, my LAT results improved.  From a PRA of 0%, now it is 100% already.  I believe that yoga has reduced my stress level.  It has calmed my nervous system and strengthened my immune system.  Moreover, it has helped replaced my mind with positive thoughts.  It brought balance to my body, mind and spirit.  I’m really very thankful that I was able to practice Yoga.  Thanks to my friend Cherry who brought me to Yoga with Toinette.

Because I gained a lot of benefits from my practice of yoga, I want to share this with you.  Thus, I interviewed my yoga instructor so that you can get to know all about this fantastic activity better and start reaping its benefits as well. 

Toinette Villajin is a yoga teacher, wellness entrepreneur, dog lover, traveler, dreamer, believer, foodie who lives life to the fullest, and touches other people’s lives through her passion.  She is the Yoga Director of Shui Hilot Spa.  She teaches Yoga for High school students of Reedley International School and she has various private group classes in Metro Manila.  She also does yoga and wellness retreats and events.  She partnered with Dr. Gerry C. Sy N.H.P., the leading Naturopathy Health Practicioner in the Phillippines and launched Ki mind.body, a wellness company which aims to share their passion to others --Yoga and naturopathy.  They offer personalized program combining yoga and naturopathy. She is currently working on a yoga clothing line. She has a very positive energy and desires nothing more than to spread it.  Yoga is her passion, wellness is her business. Sharing and inspiring others through yoga and wellness is her life‘s purpose.

So, she is here to share with us some information about the practice of yoga.

Tell us more about yourself.  
I was born August 16, 1982, a Leo and the eldest of three girls.  I spend most of my childhood in Japan.  I have a Bachelor’s Degree in Wholistic Human Development and Management at the Assumption College.

When and how did you get interested in yoga?  
I started practicing yoga in 2005.  In 2007, I experienced a major crossroad in my life. It was during this time that I took yoga practice into a deeper level.  Through yoga, I was able to overcome and move forward.  This experience affirmed my aspiration to teach yoga.  

How did you get into teaching yoga?  
My calling to be a yoga teacher was answered in the spring of 2009.  I met Sadie Nardini in Union Square, New York.  I was trained and certified by Sadie, an Ultimate Wellness and Yoga expert, and is the founder of Core Strength Vinyasa Yoga.

What is yoga?  
The word yoga comes from a Sanskrit word Yuj, it means to center one’s thought, to concentrate on one’s self, to meditate.  It also means to “unite”, “join” and “connect”; a bringing back into balance.  Yoga harmonizes the body, mind and spirit. 

After their first yoga class, people often testify that they have improved their sleeping habits and posture.  Yoga has helped people lose weight, overcome fears, conquer habits like smoking, and develop better concentration.  Others feel they have improved self-awareness, a deeper sense of well-being, developed compassion, and enhanced relationships, greater self-acceptance and a sensation of being at peace.

What type of yoga do you practice?  How is it different from other types of yoga?  What in your opinion are the greatest health benefits of doing this kind of yoga?


I prefer to call Core Strength Vinyasa Yoga a “perspective” on all yoga, rather than just its own style.  I created it after years of training and study where I was seeing a lack of either understanding or focus on the core of our yoga poses on all levels: physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and energetic.

Along the way, I was fortunate to meet one of my formative teachers, Leslie Kaminoff of The Breathing Project in NYC, and author of the bestselling Yoga Anatomy.  Under his expertise in yoga, philosophy, anatomy and pranayama, I continue to evolve my understanding of the multi-faceted core. 

Out of my journey into deep Center came my Core Principles, ways to clarify what the core is, exactly how to instruct it and activate the core within the yoga practice. 

To help students experience their Center, I created my Core Poses, specific movements, postures and sequences that bring the student into more core-generated alignment, improving safety and stability while causing a more efficient total body/mind transformation. 

Together, my Principles and Poses simplify how to access, comprehend and use the “core” most efficiently to gain the maximum yoga benefits (calorie burn, strength, flexibility, focus, self-awareness, confidence…) in the least amount of time. 

Because of its multi-level actions, and focus on constant core connection, Core Strength Vinyasa Yoga is one of the most effective yoga practices for sparking major changes both inside and out. 

In my view, the “Core” is too often seen as only the superficial abdominal muscles.  They are important, but there is a whole world of muscles, actions, energy and philosophy contained within the core of the body and spirit complex.  I teach it all to you so you can demystify what’s at your core and how you can make it work for you instead of against you both on and off the mat.

My interest in cutting-edge anatomy (pun intended) led me to study the myofascial meridian work of Tom Myers, as seen in his book Anatomy Trains.  His findings expand our idea of the core from 6 abdominal muscles to multiple head-to-toe interconnecting lines of muscle that make up our innermost support system. 

In classes with me, you’ll learn how to break the habit of moving only from the outer body and loading layers of tension onto yourself.  You will discover how to use your Deep Core Lines along the skeleton to make quick gains in true power, making all your poses more possible as you keep your body healthy for years of yoga to come.

When you go deeper, you balance stability with mobility, strength with freedom, or Sthira-Sukha, and all your yoga benefits will increase.

Can yoga really help infertility?  How can yoga help treat infertility?
The medical community has conducted only a few studies involving the ideal mind-body connection for conception.  The majority of results indicate that many couples simply need to relax.  Practicing yoga postures for infertility, while perhaps not an absolute guarantee of conception, can at the very least promote a refreshed mind and spirit while you restore the body in preparation for its new journey.

Are there any poses or breathing exercises that you can recommend for people dealing with infertility?
--Instead of saying, "I just have to get pregnant!", establish your intention through meditation.
--Repeat a phrase that awakens a peaceful spirit.  This mantra helps you declare your purpose without fear or   negativity.
--Envision yourself holding your healthy newborn. Return to that image if other thoughts invade your session.
--Practice a short meditation at the beginning of the day, and perhaps again before intercourse or fertility treatments.

Is there a healthy yoga routine you can share with us and how often do you suggest practicing it?
Yoga postures for infertility are best described as fertility poses because they spark hormone production, promote full body restoration, and increase circulation to reproductive organs to encourage responsiveness.

Start by stimulating the hormones with poses such as:

Simultaneously stimulate and relax the abdominal and reproductive areas with these poses:
Reclining Bound Angle Pose
Lotus Pose
Reclining Hero Pose

If some of these postures seem a bit uncomfortable at first, use a bolster, pillow, or folded towel to help you ease into the pose.  These tools are especially effective for the reclining postures.

Yogis familiar with fertility yoga also suggest doing the Legs-Up-The-Wall Pose after coitus for better sperm penetration of the uterus.

What advice do you have for people who have never tried yoga and are interested to?
Start with an open heart and mind.  Do not put any pressure on yourself, enjoy each breathe, each movement.  Keep in mind that yoga is a practice, everything develops through practice.

Yoga classes of Toinette are simple, fun, engaging and open to any levels.  Here is here class schedule: 
Tuesdays 7am Shui Makati / 7pm White Plains Social Hall
Thursday 7am Shui Libis / 7pm White Plains Social Hall
Sunday 7am Shui Makati
She also does Yoga corporate classes, yoga workshops, one-on-one yoga class, private group classes, yoga retreat and other wellness events.  To know more about her, you can visit her website.

Thank you so much Toinette for sharing your expertise, experience and knowledge with us.  I know it will provide a window of help for many to know that we can overcome so much with yoga, whether physically, mentally, spiritually or emotionally.

You can also give Yoga a try!  You have nothing to lose except some tension and stress!  Happy Yoga!
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