Friday, May 11, 2012

Surviving Mother's Day


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This Sunday, May 13, 2012 is Mother’s Day, a day that celebrates motherhood.  But for those struggling with infertility, Mother’s Day can be a double whammy -- another anniversary of a year gone without a baby and a holiday that specifically excludes you.  (Ouch!)
Mother’s Day is a reminder of what we don’t have yet and it is painful.  There were years when I personally did not enjoy this day as it was too sad for me to be around so many mothers when I couldn’t be one myself.  It hurts to know that in as much as we want to get pregnant; we have not yet conceived and are still waiting for our baby to arrive. 
But just like always, we will survive this and we can get through this…   
Though hurting deep inside because of our own infertile status, let us not forget to celebrate this special day and remember our own moms and all those who have been like a mother to us.  Be thankful to have your mom, your aunts and maybe even your grandmothers to love and be grateful for.  Take the time to celebrate this special occasion with them.   
Hmm… come to think of it, we might also call ourselves “Mothers” – for all the motherly acts we have bestowed to our cousins, nephews, nieces and all those whose lives we have touched one way or the other.  So celebrate yourself also for all those you are “motherly” to.  You definitely mean a lot to them.  Acknowledge that and smile. :)
You are a mother too.  You just haven’t met your baby yet.  Hopefully some day in the not so distant future, your baby will find you through whatever means are necessary and you’ll get to celebrate it too, in its real sense.  Perhaps next year, you will finally celebrate Mother’s Day with a baby (or two)… who knows?!?!  Keep the faith.
Happy Mother’s Day!  Enjoy the weekend!

5 comments:

Victory ART said...

You're a mother at heart. And eventually, you'll be celebrating Mother's Day with a smile on your face. Remebering how hard you fought just to win this battle is fulfulling. Just keep going. There's a sweet reward all those who wait.

aika said...

hi ate debby. I just started 3 months ago with clomid and sad agad dahil for at least 3 months I'm still not pregnant. i will be happy kung makita ko na sa blog mo na buntis ka na. goodluck.

lucia said...

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